Everyday couples breakup, this is happening to you now and you are in a panic. As it normally happens, you meet someone special, fall in love with this person and after some time the relationship ends and you cannot live your life without this person, simply put you want them back. Perhaps one of your friends went through a breakup, but you didn’t really understand the full impact it had on them until you were in that situation, it is truly an emotional time.

Stop just here for a second there always is a solution to a problem, yes even a breakup. This is not restricted to getting your ex girlfriend back you can also get ex husband back, ex fiancé, ex boyfriend back. Read through these three steps and apply them, here is how you can get your ex back.

1. First off you have to stop all forms of communication, such as phone calls, texting, letters, notes, email, etc. It may seem impossible to do but you have to stop going after your ex at this time. So many people are desperate for relationships, so don’t go out there and try to grab the butterfly, it will fly away, but if you are patient and sit still it will come and sit on you. It is so basic, if you try and push them back in your life they will run away from you. They need some space, so be wise and give it to them. Also, you don’t want to come across as being someone who is being deprived, moaning, weak and unsure of yourself.

2. This may sound even more ridiculous, but go out there and have some fun. It goes hand in hand with the first step. Often when you are in a relationship one tends t neglect friends and family, so ring them up and have some fun with them. This will be therapeutic for you in ways you cannot imagine.

Your ex will learn to hear that you are having fun from other people and they will remember and start to miss the good times you had together. Thus they will remember the times you had together and for one remember why they fell in love with you in the first place.

This step has quite a few advantages and will keep you busy. So many times after a breakup people do real silly stuff because they cannot get their minds off their previous partners.

A word of caution: This step is not there to make them feel jealous, that is not the way to go. Trying to make them green-eyed, is foolish and pitiable. You certainly still care a lot about your ex partner so why indulge in unhelpful, not careful and brainless activities? There will come no good if you are going to follow this route.

3. So after some time (sometimes even 30 days) if your partner has had some time to cool off you can start to talk to them again. But please do not start harassing them and start arguing all over again. This is where you simply talk and listen. You have to forget about being right, and just try and understand where they are coming from.

No one said that it would be easy but these steps can be a fantastic stepping stone for you to start with. These are the first steps you can take to win your ex back. However there are more things you can apply to better your chances and not do certain things which can make them get out of your life permanently and ruin your chances to win your ex back. If you feel “I want my ex back” then act now.