When a relationship comes to an end, the reasons why always differ, however the next bit of general info can help you to get your ex back. Obviously you may need to alter what you do slightly to suit your situation.

For the first few weeks after a relationship ends, you should spend some time apart from your ex. This is a period in which you can cool of and reflect on things. It may seem like the last thing that you want to do after you have just broken up with someone, but it is the best thing you can do.

This will give you time to become used to the idea of being away from your ex. People will very often show a more desperate side to themselves when they are in this situation. If you get used to being away from your ex you’re much less likely to become desperate and make a fool of yourself if your ex maintains that they don’t want you back.

After the cool off period you need to make contact with your ex. Try to keep everything calm and casual when you speak with them. Try suggesting a simple meeting somewhere public as friends.

If they decline they’ve obviously moved on and there’s nothing you can do. However if they agree to the meeting then this is a big plus as you have remained sensible.

When you meet them make sure you look great, they need to see you at your best. Don’t focus the main conversation around your relationship either, just subtly mention it

You should be able to read the conversation and tell when is best to bring it up. It may take several meetings but so long as you get there in the end that’s all that counts. There is much more advice like this on get your ex back tips you should take a look.