OK. You have joined two date services and written a killer profile. You’ve uploaded a good picture and now you’re going to talk with a contact. What now? How does one start separating those who have real potential and those that don’t have any potential at all? You need to find out something about who this strange lady really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is . It would be nice if girls wore labels like “Gold Digger” or “Daddy’s girl”….but they don’t so it’s down to you to find these things out and you can not just ask direct questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to provoke this lady if you decide you want to do that.

After you are past the opening small talk, ask her, “What are the most embarrassing mistakes guys make when dating online?” Listen carefully to her answers. She is going to tell you a lot about herself and her perspectives on men in general.

Next you must ask her, “What do you really think about online dating?” Now she is going to tell you if she’s had any bad experiences dating o line and help you to avoid making the same stuff wrong.

After That attempt to determine her risk tolerance level. This is really true if {you’re|you are] an entrepreneur or run a home based business as different risk tolerance levels can spell disaster for your relationship.

Now for the crucial one…..”What caused the split up in your last relationship?” If she puts all the blame on the guy, you must doubtless move on to the following prospect. If she takes all the blame herself, you must likely do the same. If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you have heard the correct answer. Move on but always with caution.

Asking the most relevant questions will give you understanding and make you more confident when you meet the lady for the first time.