Is there a way to heal your broken heart when the one you love is in love with someone else? You’ve been friends with him forever and you’ve been admiring him from afar, you just know that he is “the one”! How great your relationship might be and how greatly you desire to be with him is all you can think about but… he is in love with someone else.

It is very distressing to see him with someone else just as it can be extremely painful when you can’t be with him, the one you love. Is there some way to persuade him to love you? Having a relationship with him one day requires some patience on your part . The resolution to these types of situation can take a lengthy time. Be a good friend to him during this time but do not push yourself on him, you must keep your distance while he is with someone else.

Also, never put his current girlfriend down in front of him. This will reveal two qualities in a woman that a guy does not like, jealousy and vindictiveness, which is how you will look. All you need to do is be there for him… as his friend, if this woman is amazing and he is ecstatic with her. If she is not a nice person then you are still going to have to be patient, he has to see it for himself. When he finally sees the daylight and she shatters his heart, you will be there to help him pick up the pieces and be the rock he need to get through this.

While you are trying to be patient and wait for him, you should date other people. Not to make him jealous but to explore your options. Don’t look for something serious but you need to be out there enjoying your life while you wait. There is nothing worse than spending your life waiting for someone and they never come to you. Who knows? Maybe you’ll fall in love with someone else.

One more point, by befriending his girlfriend, you become a lasting fixture in his life. You might even start to truly like her and this way you can see if she loves him as much as he loves her. The point is you can be there for him if anything should go wrong.

If there is any chance that you can get together, this will only make your relationship stronger. Because honesty and trust are already present and it is my belief that remarkable relationships are constructed on friendship. He will also love you for who you are, not who you think he wants you to be because he has been friends with you for so long. As it is with you, you have seen him at his best and worst and you still love him because of your friendship.

You must have patience in anticipation of him seeing the light and realizing that you are “the one” for him. Live your life: date, have fun and be a good friend to him. So you don’t have to heal your broken heart, be delighted for him and be part of his life. If he is with you or not and if you really love him you’ll be happy for him.